Specialist care from the very first days
That's the most common thing we hear. And it's a completely fair question.
You've probably already been through the sleepless Google spiral. You've read about colic, reflux, tongue tie, flat heads. You've had advice from your health visitor, your friends, your GP. And somewhere in the middle of all of it, someone said — have you thought about seeing an osteopath?
Here's what we actually do.
We try to understand why the alarm is going off. Because the crying, the feeding difficulty, the unsettledness — these aren't random. They're signals. Your baby is communicating in the only language they have right now.
Our job is to listen to what that is.
"Lazy feeder." "Strong personality." "Just a difficult baby."
These labels are unfair. They imply your baby has conscious control over what they're doing. They don't. In the early weeks, much of a baby's behaviour is guided by the brainstem and primitive reflexes, but their responses are also shaped by comfort, environment, and interaction with you.
It is not a personality. It is not stubbornness. It is not something you've caused.
In the early months, a baby's behaviour is largely guided by reflexes and their developing nervous system. So when you see feeding difficulties, unsettledness, or digestive discomfort, these can reflect underlying patterns in how their body is functioning — and that's what we look at.
Think about what prolonged stress does to your own body. Your shoulders hunch. Your jaw tightens. Your digestion unsettles — reflux, discomfort, a gut that won't behave. You go from calm to overwhelmed faster than usual.
Your baby's nervous system works in exactly the same way — in a much smaller, much more vulnerable body, with no other way to tell you.
At the other end of the ladder — in rest and digest — something different becomes possible. Sleep cycles link together. Feeding settles. The nervous system is available to learn, to integrate movement, to develop.
A baby in fight or flight cannot feed well, settle, or integrate new movement. The nervous system has to come down the ladder first. Helping a baby find that regulated state isn't a warm-up to the work. It is the work.
The following describes reasons families come to see us. We look at what may be contributing — including reflexes and musculoskeletal components that might be standing in the way. Every baby is assessed individually.
You've been told "nipple to nose, tummy to mummy, wait for a wide mouth." You've tried. You're doing everything right. And it's still not working.
What if your baby physically can't do those things?
A baby born by caesarean may carry tension in their neck from how they were lifted. A baby born with forceps may have tightness through the jaw. A baby whose nervous system is stuck in fight or flight may have shoulders so braced that getting into a feeding position is genuinely difficult before anything else is addressed.
When the latch isn't quite right, air gets swallowed. A gassy, uncomfortable tummy means your baby wants to suck to soothe. More sucking, more air. The discomfort builds and we find ourselves in a cycle that's exhausting and hard to interrupt without understanding what may be driving it.
"I was sitting in a breastfeeding support training almost fifteen years ago when it first struck me. We were talking about position and attachment — 'nipple to nose, tummy to mummy' — and I found myself thinking: what if the baby simply couldn't do what we were asking of them? Not because of anything the mother was doing wrong, but because of how their birth had affected their body?
I looked around and found almost nobody else asking that question — and very little written on it. So I went looking for the answers myself. That search took me into infant feeding, tongue-tie, and eventually reflex integration — understanding how early primitive reflexes, when they don't integrate as they should, can affect everything from feeding to movement to sleep. It eventually led me to develop one of the first courses on infant feeding and osteopathy in the UK."
Many families move to bottle feeding after trying everything with breastfeeding — after real effort, and often real heartbreak. And then they find the difficulties follow them there too. That's not a failure. It's often a sign that something underneath may still be worth looking at.
A baby who struggles with the bottle may leak and dribble constantly, losing suction mid-feed. They may cough and choke because managing the flow feels overwhelming. They may take so long over a feed that the next one seems to start almost immediately — or seem never quite satisfied no matter how much they take, and the more they feed trying to find comfort, the more air is swallowed, and the more uncomfortable the cycle becomes.
We look at the whole picture — the latch, the body mechanics, the nervous system state — and consider what may be contributing for your individual baby.
A baby who cannot be soothed, who escalates from calm to inconsolable in moments, who will only sleep in arms — this is a nervous system telling you it's overwhelmed. It is not a character trait. It is not something you have caused.
We look at what may be keeping the nervous system on high alert, and whether there's something in how your baby is moving or holding tension that may be worth exploring alongside any other support you're receiving.
Reflux is real — and it's connected to more than most parents are told. All of these babies may have a diagnosis of reflux. But the reasons underneath can be very different — and understanding which is which changes everything about how you approach it.
A nervous system on high alert dysregulates the gut. When a baby is living in fight or flight, the digestive system simply cannot work as it should.
A baby who arches during feeding may be running a whole-body reflex response to head position — not necessarily responding to acid.
A latch that isn't quite working means swallowed air and a painful, gassy tummy.
A baby born by caesarean may not have had the squeezing of the ribcage that happens during a vaginal birth — which means the diaphragm may not have been fully stimulated in the way it's designed to be.
Flat head is often linked to a preference for turning one way. But the preference itself is usually what's most worth understanding. A neck that doesn't move as freely in one direction may mean one side simply feels easier — and over time, lying predominantly on that side can affect head shape.
The ability to turn and look both ways is also connected to an early reflex — the ATNR — that underlies the development of rolling and crawling later on. Looking both ways matters for reasons that go well beyond head shape.
Where head shape is a concern, Felicity uses cranial digital measurement technology to monitor changes objectively over time — so progress is measured, not guessed at.
If your baby hates tummy time, there's usually a reason — and it's worth understanding rather than pushing through. A baby living high on the nervous system ladder cannot integrate new movement. Tummy time in that state doesn't feel developmental — it feels threatening.
There's also a specific early reflex — the Tonic Labyrinthine Reflex — that means some babies find the physical demands of tummy time genuinely overwhelming. That's not stubbornness. That's physiology.
Whether your birth was fast, long, instrumental, or by caesarean — the journey matters. Babies aren't passive during birth. They rotate, descend, and emerge through a process that stimulates key reflexes along the spine and through the nervous system.
We generally see babies when something functional isn't quite working. But if something doesn't feel quite right, even if you can't put your finger on what it is, that instinct is usually worth a conversation.
We send a medical history form covering your pregnancy, birth, and the days or weeks since — so we're already oriented when you walk in.
You'll tell us the story in your own words — the birth, the feeding, the sleep, the things that worry you. That story matters as much as anything we find with our hands.
Where feeding is a concern, we'll usually watch a feed — breast or bottle — during the appointment. Seeing how your baby feeds in real time tells us a great deal.
Very gentle — nothing forceful, nothing alarming. We want to understand your baby.
Everything we find is explained clearly. Nothing is rushed. If we're not the right fit, we'll say so and point you somewhere that is.
Babies change fast. The window for supporting early development is real, and it moves quickly. So rather than simply asking families to return without purpose, we give you the tools to keep the work going at home — exercises and activities tailored to your baby, explained clearly so you understand what you're doing and why.
"Think of it like a path through a forest."
In an appointment, we find the right path together and start walking it. Between sessions, your job is to keep walking — repeating the movements and activities that help that path deepen and become established. The old, unhelpful pattern gradually grows over from disuse.
We're here when your baby needs the path found again. And in between, you can always reach us on WhatsApp — questions answered, reassurance when you need it, and a clear steer on when it's time to come back in.
Felicity and Antonietta have complementary skills and their own areas of focus. You can read about both on our About page.
"After our first session he just relaxed and started to settle. After a few sessions he is a very settled, smiley happy baby."
"100% best money we've spent. James is so much happier, so settled and he's super smiley."
"The best thing about the appointment was seeing my son able to turn his head towards our voices."
Book when you're ready. Or WhatsApp us first if you'd like a steer on whether an appointment makes sense for your baby right now.
Our tummy time guide is a good place to begin — it's a window into your baby's developing nervous system, and why these early months matter more than most parents are ever told. Written by Felicity from fifteen years of clinical practice.
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